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Helping a Suicidal Friend
Helping a Suicidal Friend
For someone to talk to when feeling depressed and/or suicidal, please call 1-800-273-TALK. All calls are private and confidential.
"What to Do
If You Feel A Friend Is Thinking Of Suicide
If someone you know is talking about suicide, please take this seriously and ask for help.
- Do Not Be Afraid To Talk To Your Friend About Suicide Or Use The Word "Suicide." This will NOT put the idea in your friend's head or influence him/her to do it.
- Try To Get Your Friend To Talk About What Is Going On In His/Her Life That Is Creating Such Negative Feelings. The more talking on your friend's part, the better.
- If Your Friend Currently Possesses The Means For Suicide. (e.g., weapon, pills) Strongly suggest that s/he removes them from her/his immediate access (e.g., by turning the item over to the police or another trusted individual).
- Try To Convince Your Friend That S/He Needs To Speak To A Trusted Elder: A Parent, Teacher, Coach, Counselor, Psychologist, Etc. Tell him/her that you want him/her to get more help than just you alone can give. Go with your friend to speak with this person, or make the call to a crisis hotline together.
- Unless You Are Absolutely Sure Your Friend Is Seeking Help And Has Spoken To Someone About Suicide, You Should Speak To A Trusted Elder Or Healthcare Professional About Your Concern For Your Friend. It is better if you tell your friend you intend to do this.
- If You Friend Asks You Not To Tell Anyone, Should You Keep The Secret? NO. There is no rule of confidentiality when it comes to potential suicide. It does no good to keep the secret and lose the person.
- Your Friend May Be Angry And Try To Convince You That You Will Get Him/Her Into Trouble If You Tell. Your friend is at risk-you must act. All you can do is convey you are sincerely trying to help.
Internet Resources
American Association of Suicidology
Promotes research, public awareness programs, public education, and training for professionals and volunteers. In addition, AAS serves as a national clearinghouse for information on suicide.
American Foundation for Suicide Prevention
a national not-for-profit organization exclusively dedicated to understanding and preventing suicide through research and education, and to reaching out to people with mood disorders and those affected by suicide.
Campus Blues
Information about challenges and issues faced by college students.
Go Ask Alice
Interactive web-site from the Columbia University Health Services. Includes lively answers to questions commonly asked by college students in many areas, including general health, sexuality, fitness and nutrition, drugs and alcohol, relationships, and emotional well-being.
Befrienders Worldwide
Suicide helplines and information
MentalHelp.net
Mental Help is an organization providing information about depression, diagnoses, and treatment.
National Institute of Mental Health
Informational web page provides information about university students, depression, bipolar disorder, and suicide.a
Student Counseling Virtual Pamphlet Collection
The Unabridged Student Counseling Virtual Pamphlet Collection
Suicide Awareness Voices of Education
Suicide helplines and information
Self Help Resources Helping a Suicidal Friend